Affairs Of The Heart Our Deepest Desires In A Relationship
Sometimes the attraction is more about the requirement of the moment than it is about the love and committment.
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- [_] 1: LEADER: Originality, Leadership, Pioneer, Determination. Wants to be listened to. Self-reliant, high expectations, ambitions, and drive. Loved one must live up to standards of cleverness
- Compatible: 3,4,5,8,44 Challenging: 1,2,6,7,9,11,22,33
- [_] 2: PARTNER: Peace, Diplomat, Friendship, Cooperation, Musical. Sensitive, sentimental. Needs encouragement of loved ones. Companion, best in a supportive role.
- Compatible: 2,3,4,6,9,11,22,33 Challenging: 1,5,7,8,44
- [_] 3: VISIONARY: Creative, Confident, Popular, Joy, Self-Expression. Charming companion. Optimistic & worry free. Likes having friends and socializing.
- Compatible: 1,2,3,5,6,8,9,11,22,33 Challenging: 4,7,44
- [_] 4: BUILDER: Disciplined, Practical, Loyal, Stability, Hard-Worker. “Down to Earth” Wants to be dependable, a rock of strength, an example of discipline for others.
- Compatible: 1,2,6,7,8,9,22,44 Challenging: 3,5,11,33,
- [_] 5: LIBERATOR: Versatile, Spontaneous, Communicator. Stimulated by the new/fascinating. Attractive, drawn to original thinkers/exciting personalities.
- Compatible: 1,3,9,22 Challenging: 2,4,5,6,7,8,11,33,44
- [_] 6: COSMIC PARENT: Responsible, Harmony, Advisor, Artistic, Balanced. Forgiving: overlooks mistakes to continue relationship. artistic, healing, needs harmony in life.
- Compatible: 2,3,4,6,8,9,11,22,33,44 Challenging: 1,5,7,
- [_] 7: PHILOSOPHER: Individuality, Perfection, Deep-Thinker. Intelligent, charming. Loves deeper/stronger than reserved, manner reveals. Likes to be alone, quiet.
- Compatible: 4,9,11 Challenging: 1,2,3,5,6,7,8,22,3344
- [_] 8: MANAGER: Power, Independence, Organization, Religious. Wants loved one to be strong & equal to own ambitions. Warm but too busy to be romantic Dislikes weakness.
- Compatible: 1,3,4,6,8,22,33,44 Challenging: 2,5,7,9,11
- [_] 9: HUMANITARIAN: Courageous, Compassion, Romanticism, Spiritual. Romantic enjoys the praise of loved ones/peers. Vision is usually on the crowds of people, not home.
- Compatible :2,3,4,5,6,7,9,11,22,33 Challenging: 1,8,44
WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A RELATIONSHIP TO BE HAPPY? NEXT TO THE NUMBERS BELOW, WRITE W for Women M for Men
- [__/__] 1. Feed me
- [__/__] 2. Sleep with me
- [__/__] 3. Leave me with peace
- [__/__] 4. Don't check my phone (Msgs)
- [__/__] 5. Don't bother me with my movements: coming and going
- [__/__] 6. a friend
- [__/__] 7. a companion
- [__/__] 8. a lover
- [__/__] 9. a brother
- [__/__] 10. a father
- [__/__] 11. a master
- [__/__] 12. a chef
- [__/__] 13. an electrician
- [__/__] 14. a plumber
- [__/__] 15. a mechanic
- [__/__] 16. a carpenter
- [__/__] 17. a decorator
- [__/__] 18. a stylist
- [__/__] 19. a sexologist
- [__/__] 20. a gynecologist
- [__/__] 21. a psychologist
- [__/__] 22. a pest exterminator
- [__/__] 23. a psychiatrist
- [__/__] 24. a healer
- [__/__] 25. a good listener
- [__/__] 26. an organizer
- [__/__] 27. a good parent
- [__/__] 28. very clean
- [__/__] 29. sympathetic
- [__/__] 30. athletic
- [__/__] 31. warm
- [__/__] 32. attentive
- [__/__] 33. gallant
- [__/__] 29. intelligent
- [__/__] 30. funny
- [__/__] 31. creative
- [__/__] 32. tender
- [__/__] 33. strong
- [__/__] 34. understanding
- [__/__] 35. tolerant
- [__/__] 36. prudent
- [__/__] 37. ambitious
- [__/__] 38. capable
- [__/__] 39. courageous
- [__/__] 40. determined
- [__/__] 41. true
- [__/__] 42. dependable
- [__/__] 43. passionate
- [__/__] 44. give compliments regularly
- [__/__] 45. go shopping together
- [__/__] 46. be honest
- [__/__] 47. be very rich
- [__/__] 48. not be stressed out
- [__/__] 49. not look at others while with me
- [__/__] 50. get lots of attention
- [__/__] 51. get lots of time together
- [__/__] 52. give lots of space, never worrying about where they go
- [__/__] 53 always remember my birthdays
- [__/__] 54 always remember our anniversaries
- [__/__] 55 always remember valentine
- [__/__] 56 always remember arrangements that are made
- [__/__] 57. a mother
- [__/__] 58. a sister
- [__/__] 59. a mistress
- [__/__] 60. I am most interested in: ________________
- [__/__] 61. To have the same interests
- [__/__] 62. Share my habits
- [__/__] 63. Save me from my habits
Life Path Purpose The Foundation Of A "Working" Relationship
Gifts, Intimacy, & Hobbies Birthdays
[ ] 1. ____________ ____________
- Gifts: Watch, painting, tie, candlesticks, jewelry box, hat, pajamas, briefcase, towel set, aromatherapy lamp, cookware, razor, space saver, slide projector, tool set, leg warmers, pillows, glassware, gloves, skates.
- Intimacy: Usually quick and direct when it comes to sexual expression. Prides oneself on endurance and stamina.
- High Days: Sunday, Tuesday Months: Feb., Apr., Aug.
- Energy Low Days: Sat. Fri. Months: Jan., May, Oct.
- Finds Pleasure In: Acting, community work, engraving, games of all kinds, horseback riding, history, inventing, martial arts, outdoor sports, photography, skiing, traveling. Acrobatics, athletics of all kinds, amusements of all kinds, archery, bowling, camping, checkers, chess, fencing, hockey, karate, racing, soccer, track and field, weight lifting.
[ ] 2. ____________ ____________
- Gifts: Teapot, hobby set, pocketbook, perfume, stationery, stoneware, vest, cutting board, rockers, shaver, percolator, hot brush, piano, camera, scissors, bedsheets, calculator, slacks, plants.
- Intimacy: Likely to prefer the slow and subtle approach to sex. No rushing or quickies. Likes to take time, to enjoy bit by bit, letting emotions and passions build.
- High Days: Monday, Fri., Months: Mar., May, Jul. Oct.
- Energy Low Days: Tues., Sat. Months: Jan., Apr., Nov.
- Finds Pleasure In: Acting, akido, all types of collecting, cooking, crocheting, dancing, designing, modeling, painting, poetry, sailing, swimming. Akido, badminton, billiards, canoeing, diving, ice skating, martial arts, table tennis, tennis, t’ai chi ch’uan, sailing, softball, swimming, volleyball, water skiing.
[ ] 3. ____________ ____________
- Gifts: Handbag, gown, dishes, pants, record album, CD, tape, cassett player, flatware, skillet, furniture, grill, hair clipper, sleepware, airpump, carpet sweeper, moccasins, turtleneck, headwear.
- Intimacy: Can be flashy or flamboyant, particularly if one feels they have the type of body worth looking at. Has tremendous energy, enjoys what one is doing.
- High Days: Thurs., Fri., Months: Mar., May, Oct., Dec.
- Energy Low Days: Wed., Sun. Months:Feb.,Jun.,Sept.
- Finds Pleasure In: Autograph collecting, boxing, decorating, gambling, horseback riding, jewelry making, magic, painting, photography, social clubs, public speaking, storytelling, traveling, writing. Archery, basketball, bowling, exploring, fencing, handball, horse racing, karate, kung fu, ping pong, volleyball, weight lifting, wrestling.
[ ] 4. ____________ ____________
- Gifts: Fruit bowl, VCR, earrings, computer, blanket, griddle, fool set, chess set, coffee maker, ironing board, heater, wallet watch, projector, minicam, belt, electronic games of all kinds.
- Intimacy: Likes to express oneself in unusual erotic, or exotic ways. Is surprising to one’s mate. Likes to do things differently.
- High Days: Sun., Wed. Months: Feb., Jun., Jul, Aug.
- Energy Low Days: Sat., Fri. Months:Jan., May, Oct.
- Finds Pleasure In: Astronomy, collecting odds and ends, electronics, flying, inventing, martial arts, mechanics, music, numerology, sculpture, travel. Bicycling, electronic sports games, checkers, chess, exploring, Frisbee, high jump, jogging, martial arts, polo, racing, roller skating, sky diving, tennis, track and field, jogging.
[ ] 5. ____________ ____________
- Gifts: Traveling kit, calculator, pen & pencil set, pendant, VCR, vest spice set, bath oil, can opener, slippers, curlers, shaver, oven, book, skates, skis, luggage.
- Intimacy: Members of the opposite sex are continually drawn to him/her Day or night, always ready for sexual expression.
- High Days: Wed., Fri. Months: May, Jun., Sept., Oct.
- Energy Low Days: Thurs. Sat. Months: Jan., Mar., Dec.
- Finds Pleasure In: All forms of communications, calligraphy, crossword puzzles, being a disc jockey, flying, gambling, jogging, martial arts, modeling, music, racing, swimming, traveling, writing. Auto racing, bicycling, checkers, chess, Frisbee, handball, high jump, jogging, judo, roller skating, running, skate boarding, sky diving, sprinting, swimming, tennis, track and field.
[ ] 6. ____________ ____________
- Gifts: Gloves, perfume, sweater, slacks, painting, decorative piece, bakeware, copper, silverware, furniture, coat, handerchief, comforter, hosiery cutlery.
- Intimacy: Many are attracted to him/her sexually & romantically. Charm & beauty has a lot do with this. Sexually loving, but conservative; enticing, yet somewhat distant, depending upon his/her mate or the emotional relationship. When in love, loves deeply.
- High Days:Fri., Thurs., Mon. Months: Mar., May, Jul, Oct. Dec.
- Energy Low Days: Sat., Sun. Months:Jan., Feb., Aug.
- Finds Pleasure In: Ceramics, cooking, crocheting, dancing, designing, being a disc jockey, doll collecting, jogging, knitting, landscape gardening, modeling, music, sewing, singing, social clubs, sports in general, weaving. Ball games, basketball, bowling, football, golf, handball, horse racing, table tennis, polo, softball, stickball, stoopball, tennis, table pool, volleyball.
[ ] 7. ____________ ____________
- Gifts: Teapot, stationery, hobby set, bracelet, robe, bath towels, bedspread, cell phone, camera, jacket, silverware, book, wall decor, painting, scissors, hot brush, frypan, reading light.
- Intimacy: Has a low-key, discriminating approach, when it comes to sex. Has an inward, imaginative nature. He/she must be more open, telling mate what is wanted out of sex, rather than keeping it to self.
- High Days: Mon., Sun., Months: Feb.,Mar.,May,Jul.,Aug.
- Energy Low Days: Sat., Tues. Months: Jan., Apr., Nov.
- Finds Pleasure In: Astronomy, book collecting, magic, music, nature studies, numerology, painting, photography, poetry, puzzles of all kinds, reading, scrabble, skiing, writing. Acrobatics, akido, badminton, billiards, bowling, canoeing, chess, deep-sea diving, ice skating, jogging, sailing, rollers skating, swimming, tennis.
[ ] 8. ____________ ____________
- Gifts: Blender, gift certificate, step stool, toiletries, raincoat, bakeware, iron, scale, blouse, radio, flatware.
- Intimacy: May be accused of lacking passion, however has a mental approach to things, and just needs a little warm-up time.
- High Days: Sat., Fri. Months: Jan.,Mar.,May,Oct.
- Energy Low Days: Sun., Wed. Months: Feb.,Jun,.Aug.,Sept.
- Finds Pleasure In: Government volunteer, antique collecting, boxing, bricklaying, coin collecting, excavating, folklore, geology, magic, nature studies, occult or religious studies, philosophy, pottery, rock collecting, skiing. Archery, ball games of all kinds, boxing, chess, golf horse racing, ice hockey, karate, long-distance running, mountain climbing, polo, weight lifting, wrestling, jogging.
[ ] 9. ____________ ____________
- Gifts: Clock, juicer, skates, crock pot, razor, shaver, chair, computer, rocker, towel set, aromatherapy lamp, heater, electronic games.
- Intimacy: Plenty of “body heat” Active and energetic. Due to this, mates can’t quickly fulfill themselves and he/she doesn’t. Prides self on being long lasting when it comes to this area of intimate life.
- High Days: Tues., Sun. Months: Apr., Aug., Nov.
- Energy Low Days: Mon., Sat Months: Jan., Jul.
- Finds Pleasure In: All outdoor sports, acrobatics, carpentry, etching, gun collecting, horseback riding, jogging, magic, mechanics, repairing, tool collecting, train collecting, traveling, wood carving. Acrobatics, auto racing, basefall, boxing, fencing, football, golf, karate, motorcycling, soccer, targer or skee shooting, tennis, weight lifting.
Life Path Purpose The Foundation Of A "Working" Relationship
- [ ] 1. Has high expectations and often disappointed when mate does not meet these expectations. Relationship will tend not to be a priority. Focus of life together will be on careers or material gain, this can put relationships in the shadows.
- [ ] 2. Committed & faithful to their partners & will expect the same in return. Will have many admirers. Mutual respect & appreciation are important in this relationship.
- [ ] 3. Ideal partner is attractive and stands out in a crowd. Excitement and romance is needed. If not present will look somewhere else to fullfill this desire. Naturally flirtatious and has many admirers.
- [ ] 4. Long-term commitment is likely to be a priority. Very protective of their partners and will be dependable and faithful. Not prone to romance, demonstrates affection in other ways.
- [ ] 5. Adventurous and romantic, wants a variety of experiences. Will never be short of admirers. Wary of commitment and responsibility and will be reluctant to settling down.
- [ ] 6. Has much sex appeal. Needs lots of affection & reassurance. Likes to demonstrate their affection through making a fuss of their partner on special occassions only, not on a daily basis. Has a deep rooted fear of rejection.
- [ ] 7. May move too fast. Chooses partners who are gifted in practical matters. Needs someone who will reciprocate and declares their love from time to time.
- [ ] 8. Has a fear of expressing emotions. Frightened of rejection and being hurt. Focuses attention on ambitions early in life. Has more energy and attention to devote to their partners once their other ambitions are realized.
- [ ] 9. Has much sex appeal is very loving and affectionate. In love with the idea of being in love. Thrives on passion and excitement in dealing with a chaotic love life.
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9 Ways To Bridge Destiny/Opportunities In A Relationship That Supports One's Visions
- [_]1c Creativity & Confidence: 10,19,28,37,46,55,64,73,82,91
- Strengths: Leadership, must demonstrate ideas. Respect other’s freedom. Combination for power. Collaborate Life Purposes with intellect for leadership. Birthing Ideas: Invention, pioneer, profitable projects. Essential Oils: basil, lavender, lime
- [_]2d Cooperation & Balance:11,20,29,38,47,56,65,74,83,92
- Strengths: Diplomat, understands, aware of needs. Patience, & understanding of non-verbal communications. Living in harmony. Equal amounts of give/take helps eliminate problems.Birthing Ideas: Diplomacy service, alternative therapy, psychology, graphics. Essential Oils: chamomile, eucalyptus, lavender
- [_]3e Expression & Sensitivity: 3,12,21,30,48,57,66,75,84,93
- Strengths: Motivating, energetic, optimistic Open communication is vital. Share experiences, express joy without restraint. Fun/laughter adds to passionate vibration. Socializing. Speaking on behalf of community brings honor. Birthing Ideas: Public Relations, writing, performing arts, dancing. Essential Oils: frankincense, lemon, orange
- [_]4f Stability & Process: 4,13,22,31,40,49,58,67,76,85,94
- Strengths: Conservative, determined, commitment Implement ideas for joint objectives. Initiate plans for future, organize/produce. Follow schedules. Compassion/understanding/forgiveness strengthens. Birthing Ideas: Building, agriculture, management of production teams. Essential Oils: geranium, jasmine, lavender
- [_]5g Freedom & Discipline: 14,23,32,41,50,59,68,77,86,95 Strengths: Outgoing, daring, unpredictable, questions. Adventuresome opportunities, new friends & new experiences. Order comes from planning, it gives a sense of greater confidence. Maintain balance through truthful communication, while facing changes Birthing Ideas: Through travel, projecting ideas, writings, sales. Essential Oils: lavender, marjoram, sandalwood
- [_]6a Vision & Acceptance: 15,24,33,42,51,60,78,87,96
- Strengths: Supportive, responsible, comforting A relationship that focuses on learning to express love. Through negotiation & compromise, opening hearts to each other provides new perspectives on life. Use of the art of placement, creates healing environments: charming and comfortable. Birthing Ideas: Uplifting traditions, teaching, & counseling, raising community standards, beautification, fashion, music. Essential Oils: cedarwood, lemon, rose
- [_] 7b Trust & Openness: 16,25,34,43,52, 61, 70, 88, 97
- Strengths: Charming, finding purpose, reserved. Spiritual development. Strengthen sensitivities, skills with discerning subtle energies. Living in harmony depends on expression of your emotions & thoughts “sensing” each other. Birthing Ideas: Higher consciousness. Research: working in fields of medicine involving metaphysical sciences. i.e. astrology, numerology, hypnotherapy, reading, discovery, writing. Imbalance. Essential Oils: clary sage, cypress, lavender
- [_] 8c(hi) Abundance & Power: 17, 26,35,44,53,62,71,80,98
- Strengths: In charge, fact-finding, decision making. Being pulled in different directions. Maintain balance by finding a common ground. Money is not more important than the need to give expression to your souls. Good ideas about making money. Honesty & respectability influence projects to be worthy ones. Fairness & trust keeps relationship grounded. Birthing Ideas: Decision making, high finances, insurance, matters of Supreme Justice, government, Essential Oils: ginger, lavender, rosewood
- [_] 9c(hi) Integrity & Wisdom: 18,27,36,45,54,63,72,81,90,99
- Strengths: Courageous, leadership, dreamer, creative. Concerns of changing the world by giving to others & occasions to give of yourselves elevates this bond to higher spiritual planes. Broad-mindedness & curiously delving into the unknown provides hidden answers for humanitarian purposes. A vibration for levels of comprehension & interest in humanity’s problems. Exploration of new subjects, channels a vibration for healing. Take advantage of interests in art, music, acting, travel, foreign lands, people & languages. Birthing Ideas: Charitable projects, philanthropy, psychology, research projects, global healing. Essential Oils: jasmine, lavender, lemongrass
SCALE: B) SOMETIMES COMPATIBLE 3.0
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